I've never had sex on the first date for that relationship to last longer than two meetings afterward. That is, if I had sex with a guy on the first date, we didn't see each other as partners in the long term. So I'm all for traditional dating. From the second date, sex is perceived more deeply and intimately. I have reproduced incredible things on the first date with sex many times. There have been the most interesting positions. My partners from the first date were less shy about trying new things. It's great, but it doesn't last long. I play porn games to come up with sex plots. You can play porn games to see what cool ideas I get, guys.